|
we care
A surprisingly large number of people consider killing
themselves at some point of time in their lives. It
is an unique emergency and requires special handling.
Befrienders India is based on the concept of an ordinary
human being offering friendship to another at a time
of crisis or loneliness. It is to respond to a suicidal
person on an equal level and treat him or her exactly
as we ourselves would want to be treated - with unconditional,
uncritical acceptance and respect, and more importantly
with utmost confidentiality.
The timely support given at the critical juncture makes
it possible to prevent suicide. In this stress filled
modern life, people are plagued with various problems
and anxieties, some of which may be difficult to be
discussed with friends and relatives. They will invariably
find in us someone who will listen to him and his problems
with attention, warmth and understanding, and unconditionally
accept them for what they are.
How you can share your feelings with us?
 |
Face
-to-face personal befriending |
 |
Befriending
through telephone |
 |
Befriending
through letters |
 |
Befriending
through e-mail (to be initiated shortly) |
To know the contact address of your nearest center
please click here.
We listen to people who are depressed and have suicidal
feelings, and are in need of our services. We play a
passive participant in the process and do not make any
value judgment or provide advice. We just listen compassionately
to their emotional outpourings.
We do not charge for our services, which are provided
to all at free of cost. We believe in absolute confidentiality
and the caller/ contacting person could remain to be
anonymous while talking with us. This enables people
to unburden their feelings without any fer or reservation.
How do we do it?
Through volunteer befriending. Befrienders India is
manned by around 300 dedicated volunteers giving a combined
1000 hours per week to help their fellow human beings
without any personal rewards. They give their time and
themselves so that the victims could ventilate their
feelings to them.
The volunteers having basic qualities of warmth, tolerance
and understanding are carefully selected and undergo
preparatory courses before volunteering their services
through us. They are also provided regular ongoing training
sessions to help them assist people under emotional
stress.
|