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We are born with the ability to take
our own lives. Each year a million people make that
choice. Even in societies where suicide is illegal or
taboo, people still kill themselves.
For many people who feel suicidal, there seems to be
no other way out. Death describes their world at that
moment and the strength of their suicidal feelings should
not be under-estimated - they are real and powerful
and immediate. There are no magic cures.
But it is also true that:
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Suicide
is often a permanent solution to a temporary problem |
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When
we are depressed, we tend to see things through
the very narrow |
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perspective
of the present moment. A week or a month later,
things may look |
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completely
different |
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Most
people who once thought about killing themselves
are now glad to be |
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alive.
They say they didn't want to end their lives - they
just wanted |
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to stop
the pain. |
The most important step is to talk
to someone. People who feel suicidal should not try
to cope alone. They should seek help NOW.
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Talk
to family or friends. Just talking to a family member
or a friend or a |
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colleague
can bring huge relief |
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Talk
to a befriender. Some people cannot talk to family
or friends. Some |
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find
it easier to talk to a stranger. There are befriending
centers all over the |
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world,
with volunteers who have been trained to listen.
If calling is too |
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difficult,
the person can send an email |
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Talk
to a doctor. If someone is going through a longer
period of feeling low |
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or suicidal,
he or she may be suffering from clinical depression.
This is a |
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medical
condition caused by a chemical imbalance, and can
usually be |
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treated
by a doctor through the prescription of drugs and/or
a referral to |
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therapy |
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Time
is an important factor in 'moving on', but what
happens in that time also |
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matters.
When someone is feeling suicidal, they should talk
about their |
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feelings
immediately |
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